Do you ever notice we have no idea what to do with ourselves when we are presented with a compliment? Or at least I didn’t. The moment someone would offer me a kind word, I would basically ignore it, or downplay it, or IMMEDIATELY sling one back to get the attention OFF of myself.
Read MoreLabels are limiting and WE are infinite! That’s not some hippie dippie, whoo whoo shit, that’s science! We are composed of cells, composed of molecules, composed of atoms, composed of particles, composed of subatomic particles, composed of ENERGY….and ENERGY cannot be destroyed. So…to wrap myself in all of these LIMITING labels and FINITE definitions goes against the very nature of the fabric of my being, which is ENDLESS, LIMITLESS, and UNDEFINABLE.
Read MoreWe WANT….because we believe that in the, having of something, we will FEEL different than what we are currently feeling….so what we REALLY WANT, actually has nothing to do with the house, the job, or the relationship and EVERYTHING to do with the FEELING.
Read MoreMaybe our ULTIMATE mission in life is making the every day, hum drum, routine, routines… into a fabulous parade of gratitude and awareness that highlight the HUM of the birds song and the DRUM of our ABLE feet beating along the sidewalk.
Read MoreThink about it, the word relationship comes completely bound up in strings and chains and bars. From RELATION right to SHIP. By being a “relation” we ALREADY have expectations of what that means and what sacrifice that entails, different for each family, but certainly potent for each one. And who decided those!? It certainly wasn’t you! Generations upon generations have piled up layer upon layer, guilt upon guilt….like a massive lunchmeat sandwich! AND the pickle on top: is a BELIEF imposed on YOU as to what you are SUPPOSED to DO and BE and FEEL so you can be considered a “good” daughter or son or mother or father, or spouse or partner. And how many of us ACTUALLY live up to that?!
Read MoreWe are constantly barraged with the just “LET IT GO” advice, hell, even Disney took the bait….cue the theme song from Frozen. Now, if you are anything like me, the moment I am told to go RIGHT, I go LEFT, if authority says NO, then I say YES…not on purpose of course, I think we are all a bit that way…..OR we are triggered by the person giving the advice and then start the EVEN more unhelpful dialogue in our mind that may sound something like…..”YOU are telling ME to let it go, REALLY, well I don’t see YOU LETTING GO of that shitty job you’ve complained about for the last ten years straight. So for contradictions sake, let’s be contrary…..why don’t we give “LETTING GO” of “LETTING GO,” a go!
Read MoreWhenever I think about NON-ATTACHMENT, the Madonna song…”Material Girl,” starts playing in my mind. And here’s where I may get some jaws to drop…I AM a MATERIAL GIRL, living in a MATERIAL world aaaannnnddd I ENJOY it damnit and so should YOU!
Read More“I’m an introvert; I’m not good with money; I’ve always done it this way; I’ve never had a mind for business, or, this is just the way I am”….. these are all REALLY convenient excuses to continue having the SAME tired problems and the same tired complaints for the REST OF OUR LIVES!
Read MoreWe live within the prison of our own minds and the walls are constructed with our confined THINKING and our pre-programmed BELIEVING, when we break free from THINKING and BELIEVING we already KNOW, we slide right down a magical rainbow slide into the wide open potential of the UNKOWN….which is of course, the ONLY place rainbow slides exist!
Read MoreEvery day, every moment, we GET TO choose the story of our life. However, if we do NOT CHOOSE to write our OWN story, if we sit back and allow OUR story to be told over and over again by disfigured, distorted memories, than we literally set the stage for our lives to CONTINUE to LOOK and FEEL distorted and disfigured. By re-telling and re-living our past, we booby trap ourselves into making it not only our present, but we are calling it forth to be our future as well!
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