WANTING is a GOOD Thing!

We WANT….because we believe that in the, having of something, we will FEEL different than what we are currently feeling….so what we REALLY WANT, actually has nothing to do with the house, the job, or the relationship and EVERYTHING to do with the FEELING.

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Andrea Behler
WHY LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS do NOT go TOGETHER

Think about it, the word relationship comes completely bound up in strings and chains and bars. From RELATION right to SHIP. By being a “relation” we ALREADY have expectations of what that means and what sacrifice that entails, different for each family, but certainly potent for each one. And who decided those!? It certainly wasn’t you! Generations upon generations have piled up layer upon layer, guilt upon guilt….like a massive lunchmeat sandwich! AND the pickle on top: is a BELIEF imposed on YOU as to what you are SUPPOSED to DO and BE and FEEL so you can be considered a “good” daughter or son or mother or father, or spouse or partner. And how many of us ACTUALLY live up to that?!

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Andrea Behler
WHY "Let it Go" is Bullshit Advice

We are constantly barraged with the just “LET IT GO” advice, hell, even Disney took the bait….cue the theme song from Frozen. Now, if you are anything like me, the moment I am told to go RIGHT, I go LEFT, if authority says NO, then I say YES…not on purpose of course, I think we are all a bit that way…..OR we are triggered by the person giving the advice and then start the EVEN more unhelpful dialogue in our mind that may sound something like…..YOU are telling ME to let it go, REALLY, well I don’t see YOU LETTING GO of that shitty job you’ve complained about for the last ten years straight. So for contradictions sake, let’s be contrary…..why don’t we give “LETTING GO” of “LETTING GO,” a go!

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Andrea Behler
How NOT KNOWING is the KEY to unlock your HAPPY

We live within the prison of our own minds and the walls are constructed with our confined THINKING and our pre-programmed BELIEVING, when we break free from THINKING and BELIEVING we already KNOW, we slide right down a magical rainbow slide into the wide open potential of the UNKOWN….which is of course, the ONLY place rainbow slides exist!

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Andrea Behler
Does Your Family NOT Understand YOU? Here's What You Can Do About It

Every day, every moment, we GET TO choose the story of our life. However, if we do NOT CHOOSE to write our OWN story, if we sit back and allow OUR story to be told over and over again by disfigured, distorted memories, than we literally set the stage for our lives to CONTINUE to LOOK and FEEL distorted and disfigured. By re-telling and re-living our past, we booby trap ourselves into making it not only our present, but we are calling it forth to be our future as well!

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Andrea Behler
The Link Between Porn and Yoga

That’s how powerful our minds ARE, we can use them to hang out with Porn Star Pam OR Oprah. We get to choose the vibration we experience based on the thoughts we ALLOW into our kingdom. This certainly does not mean that Porn Star Pam is not going to knock on the door, ring the bell, hell, she might even swim across the mote every now and again, BUT and this is a major BUTT (obviously because she is a Porn Star) we do NOT have to allow her in, offer her the GRAND SUITE and throw a royal ball in her honor. 

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Andrea Behler